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Cheating: Who Draws the Line?
In a healthy relationship, both sides determine what’s cheating and what isn’t. A question that comes up at some point in most relationships is “What counts as cheating?” Sex, of course—and by that we...
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My Father Made Me Want to Cheat on My Husband
A daughter wants fathers to recognize everything they pass on—adultery included. Dear Fathers of Daughters, I know most of you guys realize that your girls look to you to teach them what to expect...
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Are You Faithful?
photo: douyoulove.info What constitutes infidelity? Looking at porn? Chatting with an old flame on Facebook? Guys weigh in. With the list of famous philanderers on the front pages of the most reputable...
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Commitment Is the New Kinky
The type of love being sold by our culture has no shelf life, says Travis Gasper. The problem with love is a problem of language. When I can use one word to encompass my feelings for my wife, my...
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Am I a Good Man, or Am I Just Lazy?
According to Shawn Peters, fidelity simply requires less work for some men. Alone at last, away from prying eyes, she steps close… closer than she should. “This isn’t right. I’m a married man.” Her...
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Keeping It Closed
Tom Gaffney paints a picture of gay men and the picket fence lifestyle. It’s sometime after three when I hear my front door squeak open and my roommate stumble in from the bars. I hold my breath and...
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Polyamory, Fidelity and Faithfulness
Jimmy Holloway can tell you from experience that faithfulness and exclusivity are not necessarily the same thing. There are countless ways to break someone’s heart, and not all of them involve sleeping...
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How to Deal With Racism in an Interracial Relationship
Every new couple experiences good ‘firsts’ and bad ‘firsts’ in a budding relationship. My girlfriend and I have experienced saying the “L” word to each other for the first time and shared sex facts...
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Compersion: A Better Way?
Edgar Ramsey offers a solution to marital jealousy and infidelity. When I was younger, in my late teens and early twenties, I was pretty normal in the green-eyed department. The thought of my woman...
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Ready, Set, Wait
It may seem old fashioned, but there are perks to waiting to get it on until you put a ring on. My wife and I were virgins when we got married. Gasp … I know! Although it took every sliver of...
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